3 CARDS
Should I Text Them?
Think of the person you are thinking of messaging and pick three cards. They open as reaching out now, their reaction and timing with advice.
Shuffling the cards...
How to read it
The first card says whether reaching out now is a good idea, the second shows their likely reaction and the third gives timing and advice. Even if the first card says wait, the third card tells you when.
One more check before you send
Messages sent late at night or in a rush of feelings are easy to regret. Let it sit for a day and read it again. If you still want to send it, it is not too late.
If they do not want contact
If they have clearly asked for space, respecting that is the best choice. Use the cards to sort out your own feelings.